The Ten Rules

Ten shared commitments to respect, equality, honesty, support, and acceptance. Discover the code that protects our private community.

1. Unconditional Respect: Treat each person with dignity. Respect individual boundaries, identities, experiences, and the right to be heard.

2. No Judgment & Equality: Difference is not a reason to exclude someone. Meet others without prejudice and give every member an equal voice.

3. Help & Support: Offer practical encouragement when you can. Ask for help without shame, respect your own limits, and seek professional support when needed.

4. Invite Only: Membership is private and invitation-based. Applications are reviewed; submitting one does not automatically grant membership.

5. Honesty & Trust: Communicate truthfully, keep your commitments, and protect information shared in confidence.

6. Stay Positive: Bring constructive energy. Difficult feelings are welcome; cruelty, harassment, and humiliation are not.

7. Think Before You Act: Consider the consequences of your words and actions. Choose care, restraint, and lawful, nonviolent responses.

8. No Bringing Down the Group: Protect the community from harassment, exploitation, and conduct that undermines the safety or dignity of its members.

9. Consequences: Accountability matters. Concerns are reviewed by leadership and may result in restrictions, suspension, or revoked membership.

10. Acceptance: You do not need to fit a mold to belong. Accept others as individuals while honoring our shared commitments. Explanations are working editorial drafts pending the original official rules document and founder approval.

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